Hi NYG, I'm sorry this happened. And I would agree that turning off 'find my phone' doesn't just happen. I do think in your sitch that there has been some pretty regular pushing of boundaries and it does sound as though some kind of contact is ongoing with OW.

So, what are you going to do now??

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