Yes I came away with very little stuff from our marital home. A few items of furniture I had before I met XH and a few sentimental items, including one or two nice presents from him that I feel okay with having around.

Other than that, it has been a clean slate. I even felt funny about things like ironing board as I could remember him ironing new trousers for when he was travelling and working (and seeing OW.) So things like that I just didn't want my new place sullied with..

Do what feels right to you and enjoy the process my friend x


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus