Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 5

[Surfer]

The WS does this. I still get it and separation is the only things I that really helps. He won't criticise anyone else like he does you. It may be a form of projection IDK TBH. I am going to have a chat with my W about respect and avoiding criticism, condemnation or complaining. We both mutually need to agree to be respectful enough not to use the 3 C's so we can call each other out. Of course she will say it wasn't a C it was an observation. If they need to play by the rules. Set boundaries or suffer the treatment you allow.

Keep that rage and anger at bay. It's just poor communication on both sides and you can't expect him to treat you in the 'right' way if you do t explain what that is.

Just and observation.

Keep your cool. You can do it.

Surfer.