From your H's behaviour Sara, he doesn't sound as though he wants to rebuild your M. I don't think you get to have an A, say you want to rebuild and then be 'off' with your W as he is being. I hate to say it but when XH was being like that with me, he was still in contact with AP. Is he being transparent with his devices and whereabouts & suchlike?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
