Yes, I agree with Cali, don't engage with him on that at all. If he raises it, you can say - hey, I'm due somewhere - we'll need to discuss this another time. You're not in a place where you can hold your ground in a convo with him. Respond to your L and let him/her advise your H.

Remember Feyth, you get to decide what is and isn't okay for you!

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus