I've had a message for an old (woman) colleague who want to meet up for a drink next week. I don't think its a date, but have agreed to go because we got on so well and it'll get me out on a Friday night. Its nice to know that people care though.
This is probably bad idea, but only you can be the judge.
Id focus on making your GAL with men or mixed company or at least with a group.
Im not sure one on one time with a member of the opposite sex is the best GAL strategy.
