Originally Posted By: trumpet
Putting yourself first will be hard.


You're building a brick at a time, not a wall at a time.


I really like this way of thinking. It really is the small things that will add up over time with putting myself first. That's going to be my plan.

So today I have my first meeting with a IC. I am a little be nervous but also looking forward to talk about some of my issues/concerns/goals. I really need to stop looking at this as poor me.. my wife and I are separating. I need to realize this is an opportunity to grow as a man/person/father. That is the mindset I am trying to work on.


Hope everybody has a great Friday and Weekend! smile


Me:37 W:30
S10 S9 D3
M-Sept 2004 D-Nov 2007
Reconcile Sept 2010
Re-Married Sept 2014
BD ILYBNILWY - April 2016
W Wants to Move to Apartment - Sept 2016
W Moved to Apartment - Nov 10 2016