I recognize similar thoughts from WH - he had some strange ideas about interaction, and also refused MC for a very long time. Anger and impatience was what made me withdraw.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17