I realize that you are fairly new to the Forum and wanted to let you know one of the Board policies is to stick to one thread until you've reached 100 postings/replies. By doing so, it not only allows you to follow your progress along the way, but it also helps us to determine which thread to follow as well as your progress.

You can change your Subject Line at any time within your thread.

Cadet may come along and merge your two threads together.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.