She's been having her hair done, buying clothes and her nails done - which is fine, but if she's unable to budget and prioritise properly, I suspect that she's likely to have a very big shock when living on her own.
That is one of the consequences she may have to experience. Your part is to get out of the way, and not rescue her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
