Thanks feyth! You did get an LOL out of me which is rare! You are such a great person. I envy you sometimes.

I still feel terrible this morning. I am sure my dad had visions of a grand send off when he left place ugh. This morning he sends me an email apologizing for being so emotional. All I could think was no, it's ok to be emotional, it's normal and reasonable. Holding in emotions is part of our family's problem, my problem. I just hope he is OK. He already has an alcohol dependence problem and I am so so worried that it will get worse. This is going to be harder for him than if he and my mother separated. Ugh!!

Thanks agin feyth... you are great!