Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 5

[PsySara]

Thank you, Surfer and Dory. I find myself struggling with anger and resentment now that he is home. He still says wayward things, blaming me for looking outside the marriage, still controlling. Last night he asked me t look something up on my phone (he was driving) I started to look it up, he said use my phone, I started to use his phone, he said use Google maps, so I did that, and then he got angry because I wasn't doing it like he wanted me to.

I shut down and stopped talking after he took over. HE later asked if he offended me, I told him I felt he was being controlling. His response was I was doing it my way and not his way. I said, "When you ask someone to do you a favor then they can do it their way." He disagreed and said you should do favors the way someone wants you to, I said all that mattered was it was done.

Cue argument that ended in me going to our bedroom and slamming the door and putting the baby to sleep. I am struggling with this anger, this rage. Right now I feel that he should show some remorse, some insight that his way can sometimes be wrong. It really all comes back to the affair, I don't think he really regrets it or views it as a truly awful thing to do to your spouse. Now he is acting the exact same way before the affair, petty and criticizing every little thing I do.

Don't give he baby the toothbrush.

You're Googling wrong.

etc., etc.,

Sigh, I need some space today.