he's overthinking and trying too hard. that's my first hit. know that I have zero experience here and am probably talking out of an obscure key on my keyboard, but that is absolutely my first instinct as I read this. Also, is this IC someone who is trained in keeping marriages together? that's my next question. Many aren't, as we know.

So I'd like to know what Job thinks about this or any of our other vets ... You know you can come here to vent, cry whatever you need to do - we are here.

Lou my love, just keep taking care of yourself. You've grown so much since this began. Don't lose sight of that ever. You are amazing and wonderful. Just keep being you. Wish you were closer so I could make you tea and give you a hug. xoxoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver