Yes, that is a useful post - and a new one to me. Thanks for bumping it up Job.

Cil, I'm sorry to read that news and send my hugs to you. For me, being D'd has changed things and given me some more release. I know it's different for everyone, but I hope you also find that to an extent.

Do take care and my best wishes to you xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus