Be less present. Also, "I told him he looked nice but that he shouldn't be fake".... why? Why not just "you look nice"?
Treat him cordially and be polite but not overly nice. Get the demons out of your head (ie "I guess to look more attractive when he goes out to get women"). At this point, you were fired from being his wife. Focus on you only.
I'm. It going to lie I literally chuckled when you said that you aren't analyzing everything he's doing or saying and then you posted 2 posts full of analyzing him.
What about you? What have you been doing or working on for YOU?
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17