Don't be, it's honestly for the best and she needs this to continue her journey.
I only agreed to Retrouvaille because at the time she showed remorse and was committed to the M. It's a solid program but hindsight I should have pumped the brakes and taken things slowly, lesson learned is stress/pressure makes the MLCr run the other direction
Hence the reason why detaching and GAL reduces pressure off of them and is effective.
I don't think I would ever do the retrouville thing. Seems incredible religious driven. Not for me
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
