Gmum - I still have trouble communicating and coparenting with X. I have tried multiple avenues attempts to close the gap between us and reduce confrontation, but it doesn't seem to work. So we aren't communicating in anyway that is valuable or supportive for the kids. And here I am thinking about the best ways to introduce someone to them.
PS G - where is the update on you? I can't find any recent posts except the ones on my thread????
Sorry to hear that. It sounds very similar to my own situation with the (not soon enough) ex husband.
I'm ok. Still in the US for a little while longer. I have some business to take care of first and in order to do so, I will get shelter from a fellow ehhhh....person I met online who is going through the same thing..Eternally grateful.
As far as the divorce goes, it looks like I'll get what I wanted with custody. My ex is moving to the state where his girlfriend lives and start a business down there. He is currently en route with our kid there for the second time. It stings a little, but I try to enjoy the very needed alone time.
Still haven't figured out what I want to do with my life, but I'm slowly finding the confidence to actually get excited about starting over. And I look forward to being as far away from my ex as possible. I hurt for my daughter but at least she is used to him traveling and being gone.
Keep updating us. Love hearing how well you're doing.
