Morality Clause in D decree???

[SBJ]

j20a00g...I was saying that I haven't seen any D papers yet.
as for looking at the condo, all I care about is that it is in a safe area since my kids will be there when she has them.

As for helping her move...that's a big NO. If it is in a couple of weeks, then I will be out of town on a hunting trip. The only thing I'd be worried about is if she takes something I did not allow.

My dad told me of a story of when he and my mother divorced...she was moving out and they had an agreement on the furniture that did not include all of the mattresses. When he returned home, there wasn't a bed in the house...he was kind of angry then, but laughs now.

As for the "friend zone" thing...it's funny how that is on all of their minds once they want to leave. She says that all we've had for 25 years is our great friendship, but now she is willing to throw away our M and thinks that we can still be friends. As far as I am concerned, I think that is an impossibility! Maybe once I totally detach, it will be easier to think about, but the thought of her with an OM is messed up. I know that that is something that is a me problem, but I am a work in progress.

As for working on me...I hit the gym last night and am so effing sore right now. Shoulders/arms/abs.