lt, man, I really feel for you having to deal with all of this. Mules is right -- you can definitely handle this -- but it must be exhausting. Hang in there!
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)