Thanks guys, this makes much more sense. I was somewhat confused as to how I was meant to be able to achieve and breakdown said goals without being able to influence them.

Thought this may have been a 'manifesting' scenario...

Setting goals for myself is much more realistic and as Darkness mentions, these can be s.m.a.r.t goals.

Thanks again guys.

M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016