Yes, I asked him to leave. It was a gut reaction to a horrible discovery. I then asked him a Couple of days later whether he would come home and work on it and he decided that our whole marriage had been terrible. He said he was worried that we would return to more of the same and that I would never be able to trust him again. I then started reading here and detaching from him. Now he is showing signs of possibly wanting to R. . It was his idea to continue MC.
I am just as confused as you are lol. I was so caught off guard by DDay, I reacted horribly . My heart broke and kicking him out seemed logical at the time.
