Ok I just read your whole thread and am a bit confused.

He had an A so you kicked him out. You then decided you wanted him back and he decided he want sure he wants back. Now he's coming after you and you are detaching?

All of this has happened in the last month?

Do you want him back or no? Does he say he wants back or no?

34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17