I think I pushed it too far tonight. WS sent a text because his mother was wondering what to get DD for Xmas and I made a comment that DD feels abandoned by her entire family. I shouldn't have said anything but it's true. All three of my kids feel that way. WS, ILs, and his siblings have all rallied around him and not one has made any attempt to contact the kids. It especially hurts DD20 and I feel like I should stick up for her.