I do have a question though. I'm so not sure how to treat him. For example, today he bought new clothes, I guess to look more attractive when he goes out to try to get women (he didn't say this specifically). But he was very excited to show me his new clothes. Like, that's a bit of mixed signals and I don't know how to respond.
I told him he looked nice, but that he shouldn't be fake. I don't want to be rude but I don't want to encourage him to try dating other women but I don't want to tell him not to and be pursuing/controlling.
Me: 29, H:28 Together 9 years, married 7 No kids BD/ILYBNILWY: July 9th, 2016