Hanging on and hoping for the best

[j20a00g]

Your therapist instructed you to GAL. Always good to get the reinforcement.

Something I wish I wouldn't have done before was gonto MC. Tbh, it did more damage (far more damage) than good. In reality, you are putting faith into a counselor who doesn't really know you or the situation. So many therapist are more focused on siding with the one who wants out and woks on how to make a separation more amicable. They aren't truly trained for couples. We did see a foreman therapist which was completely different but at the time we met her, my w was already done.

Just be cautious.