Thanks TiredTN. Yes I think I do agree with this as well. As I think about it more, I think my IC is suggesting it because is has been clear so far that I haven't been able to detach pretty much as all!
So he suggested in house separation, formal where we tell the kids) and I didn't end up doing that, so next session he recommended moving out for 3 months, to let her feel the lack of my presence. Because despite what she sometimes thinks, I provide her alot of emotional support.
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03/15 : ILYBINILWY 10/15 : IDLYA 01/16 : "I'm sacrificing to stay in the marriage for the kids!" 10/16 : She discusses Seperation BUT...she's still here..for now