Thanks TiredTN. Yes I think I do agree with this as well. As I think about it more, I think my IC is suggesting it because is has been clear so far that I haven't been able to detach pretty much as all!

So he suggested in house separation, formal where we tell the kids) and I didn't end up doing that, so next session he recommended moving out for 3 months, to let her feel the lack of my presence. Because despite what she sometimes thinks, I provide her alot of emotional support.


M 46 W 41
MR 17 T 18
S12 D14 S17

03/15 : ILYBINILWY
10/15 : IDLYA
01/16 : "I'm sacrificing to stay in the marriage for the kids!"
10/16 : She discusses Seperation
BUT...she's still here..for now