Don't call him. Leave him be. He's a grown man and can take care of himself. Your focus now needs to be on you and your children. Checking in w/him reminds him of his mother....do you want to be considered his mother? I don't think so...besides you were fired as his wife...so don't check in w/him unless it is an absolute emergency.
Your man/child has to grow up and you can't help him. The more you try to call/text/email, the more you are pursuing him. He can't miss you if you are doing this stuff. Put that rubber band on your wrist and snap it hard each time you get the urge to contact him.
Seriously...he'll contact you when he's ready or he needs something from you. Leave him alone!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
