Keep in mind that they are the masters of projection. I would venture to say that he's actually talking about himself not being a responsible adult or maybe his mother wasn't good at it a long time ago.
Keep on moving forward. I'm praying that the phone gets lost!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
