So ridiculously sad. Please help

[JRuss]

Molly -- just keep doing what you're doing re the texts. Their subject matter (not important stuff) and frequency suggests he's noticing your changes/pull back and is temperature checking to see if you will come jumping back into the boat.

On the MC, I'm mixed. I definitely agree you'll get nowhere if you both aren't motivated to make the MC work if at all possible, but WS is apparently saying he wants to go, so I'm hard pressed to see how you wouldn't want to go and see if there's anything in it, albeit with the lowered expectations doodler wisely counsels.