We just had a talk about our needs/desires and how to work together. I told her that I'd like to go biking next week, but didn't want this to let her down, and she - I have described her as 'beating all known records for kindness' - thought it was a good idea that I go. I'd mentioned this earlier this year as one of my goals, and she now seconded the motion - .
I also said that I wanted her to feel this same freedom, and she seemed to accept that. Finally, I said that her happiness was important to me, and it is, and so for the moment we are good.
Secrecy didn't get discussed, yet, but yes, it needs to get resolved/worked through.
Thx - Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
