Sorry you are hear. I just caught your thread. Stay strong for your kids. My XW put OM first and as a result my kids have no contact with her at all. She has made 2 attempts this year to connect.. or should i say give an ultimatum to them. Take it or leave it. It's scary to think she was once a loving mother and wife.
As for you sitch. MLC. WW, married too young and lack of life experience.. it all adds up to you getting on with your life. Loving those kids and being their rock. Nothing else matters. What people and family think means nothing right now. The truth about it all will eventually come out.
OM is in the picture. it makes it harder for her to see past that exciting adventure.
take care
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015