I'm trying to set my goals but would love some help as I dont know that I'm on the right track.
My initial goals were : 1. I would like to spend Christmas together. 2. I would like to have more communication between us. 3. I would like to do more things together.
I then read that they needed to be action orientated and changed them to: 1. I would like the 3 of us (M,W & S) to be spending the day happily together on Christmas. 2. I would like us to have more time together to discuss our day / feelings / dreams and listen to one another. 3. I would like the chance to take her out on a date and enjoy each others company on our own.
I then get to the request of breaking these down into manageable pieces (what would be the 1st indicator) and I'm struggling. How do I break these down? Or have I got these wrong in the 1st place?
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016