When she said she needed to process more about me knowing more from the phone call she also said " I made the bed I have to sleep in". Never heard her say that old time phrase. This is why I am hopeful that she is really doing the thinking
H (me) 52, W 42 M 15 D14, S12 PA June and Sept 2016 Found out Sept, confronted Oct NC with OM since Oct, remorseful Dating since Nov