Kdvor I'm sorry things are so bad for you at the moment. I don't have any magic solutions, no one does. It is really hard, but please don't ask him for help. He is already telling you he cannot cope, what will burdening him more achieve? I think you need to follow Job's advice to the letter. Think of him as ill. An illness that stops him from doing anything for you, maybe being in a coma or something. What would you do then? Would you beg him for help? Like I said, I know it's hard. Best of luck x
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
