Straight away she starts saying that I should look at myself before accusing someone of getting angry all the time. This is her fantasy, as although I did used to get angry, I haven't being doing that for a few years now.
Not saying whos right or wrong here. But I wonder if you arent as "cured" as you say. Consider her comments from her perspective or your children's perspective. What might be perceived as anger even if you dont feel angry?
Originally Posted By: Oluwa
My wife and I talked a bit more, and she said that there is no hope for this child, he just can't change his behaviour and there's nothing we can do. I said there must be other approaches we can try to help him understand. She said, "Whats your great idea for a new approach then ?". I said, "Im not sure, just that we havent tried everything and i'm not willing to give up on my child yet".
Again not saying that what you did was wrong. But it sounds like you are looking for her to come up with something. I think a better response would have been "Im not sure, but Id like to do some research about it." or something to that effect. Otherwise, it sounds like you just want her to change or fix something.
