I need advice. I have an appointment with a divorce busting coach tonight, but I can't wait that long.
My husband is with a lawyer today and sending me all of these messages asking me how to divide stuff up and he said he's only doing this one time. I told him to write it up and I'll write a response once I'm served and he accused me of stalling and making it more difficult. I explained that I just wanted time to think and make the best decisions.
He doesn't want to hear it though.
At this point do I fight and defend what I want in the divorce or just go along with it as to not create conflict?
I would have ask him to write a proposal. If theres something in particular that you want you can include that request. Then you can discuss it reasonably.
But I would point out that its difficult to communicate these discussions by text and you are busy today to discuss by phone.
You could say you dont want to discuss it until you consult with a lawyer as well. Thats not a bad option either. Though a lawyer wont really help you divide "items"...I imagine youll want to come to an agreement on it.
