Thanks, doodler. Yeah, my W is not mean overall, just burned out of the marriage and struggling with her life, with what she wants, etc. Same as the rest of us, I guess. This gives me hope, but sometimes hope is the hardest thing, and it definitely makes detaching harder, because you never fully give up your grasp on "the rope".
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)