New to the 180. Help?

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I need advice. I have an appointment with a divorce busting coach tonight, but I can't wait that long.

My husband is with a lawyer today and sending me all of these messages asking me how to divide stuff up and he said he's only doing this one time. I told him to write it up and I'll write a response once I'm served and he accused me of stalling and making it more difficult. I explained that I just wanted time to think and make the best decisions.

He doesn't want to hear it though.

At this point do I fight and defend what I want in the divorce or just go along with it as to not create conflict?