She offered to come to the house and spend time with him and then put him to bed and leave. I didn't think that was a good idea at all. Firstly I think that this would be bad for my boy (if he wakes up in the night expecting to see mommy), and secondly, it doesn't seem right pretending that things are normal.
I dont know that it would be bad. My kid was a similar age when I was going through the separation and I didnt really experience those kinds of troubles.
That said, I dont think you want to be seeing her every single day.
Originally Posted By: RBG80
We could sell the house and split the debt, but there would be like �70 saving on rent and with the scope of property price increases, I'd rather try and hang on to the house...
So theres your answer. Its about what is best for RBG and son.
