She offered to come to the house and spend time with him and then put him to bed and leave. I didn't think that was a good idea at all. Firstly I think that this would be bad for my boy (if he wakes up in the night expecting to see mommy), and secondly, it doesn't seem right pretending that things are normal.

We could sell the house and split the debt, but there would be like £70 saving on rent and with the scope of property price increases, I'd rather try and hang on to the house...


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016