That's my thought exactly. He is being clingy b/c he is 3.5 and confused - its a natural reaction. I think she feels that he should be at home in his own bedroom in the week (which I get), but I think that the reason behind this is so that she can get to work on time. I feel that its more important that he spends time with both parents in an environment that he feels comfortable.
At the moment the W is staying at her Moms (which I guess isn't great for her as she shares a room with our S), and she has mentioned getting her own place. I know that this is inevitable, but it feels like another nail in the coffin. I'm also worried about money as our house is in negative equity (so makes sense for one of us to stay there - which is likely to be me), but I'll be left with little to no money.
The other option is to let her have the house (although doubt she'd be able to afford it), but then it means that I'm renting an apartment, with no savings and a car on finance. I'd be in no better a situation than an 18 year old lad straight out of school. A massive backwards step!
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016
