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I'm sorry to hear of your loss too, but its good to know that there someone who understands

I look back and can see that when she's asked me to lend her £20 a couple of times and that I've obliged, she taking the p!ss. It's hard when she says its for food though, but I guess I need to start being somewhat more firm.

I think its even harder to adapt to a different style of dealing with issues when you didn't even know that you needed to. Now that I am moving forward, I need to figure out what works for me and my S.

You're spot on about how the W has twisted things around. It clearly takes two to break a M, but all responsibility seems to be lying on my shoulders - now this is b/c I've taken a lot of responsibility during the initial weeks, however there seems no acceptance from her as to the part that she played (but then again why would she as she's the one who's left?, I just wonder if there will be a moment of realisation by her, and if so worry that I may have already moved on.

I beginning to see the love from friends, family and colleagues and this is really helping. but I'm trying to fall back in love with myself, and ensure that I do things for myself. (I've already dropped a couple of clothes sizes with I'm chuffed about).

Thanks Sandi. As always, I REALLY appreciate your support.