New to the 180. Help?

[j20a00g]

@j20a00g

I just felt like only talking about our son and bills would make the conversation boring and business like and wouldnt establish any positive feelings about me. But it would be a 180 I suppose.
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Precisely. He said he doesn't want you as his wife (right now) so why act it? What you have been doing hasn't helped establish positive feelings so you need to mix it up or else you get the same results.

Make the conversation "boring"? You can do what feels right or do what works. Choice is yours.