Hi Luke, I can see her POV on that. I wouldn't want to be in a R that needs to be kept under wraps.
On the face of things, there wouldn't seem to be any need for secrecy - your kids are pretty much grown up, you are D'd. Are you concerned about the reaction of your XW?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
