is there not some merit in the thought, if WW thought I might be talking to another girl, she'd see I'm not a rug to walk on, and maybe there's a chance she'll really lose me? if sandi's psyh stuff is right, that could be an after effect.
I suppose in theory, it could. Or she could instead file for divorce that day as you would be playing right into that role of being "the bad guy".
The point is that you shouldnt be basing your actions exclusively on how you think she might react, right now. If you arent ready to be dating (and I cant imagine that you are), then why would you do it?