just FYI I looked for your story in newcomers, then found it by clicking on your name.
maybe you'll get more traffic in that forum, it's the one I peruse, and probably true for others.
I dont have much advice, but my heart is with u as u deal with this sh*t. thanks for the help in my sitch too.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16