hi j20a,

just FYI I looked for your story in newcomers, then found it by clicking on your name.

maybe you'll get more traffic in that forum, it's the one I peruse, and probably true for others.

I dont have much advice, but my heart is with u as u deal with this sh*t. thanks for the help in my sitch too.


M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16