thanks - yes, that is a good way to see things. I do ask her what she wants - one thing she wants, for example, given that she is a good friend of my xW, is to have our relationship be public (so far we hide things) - but she is naive (and she says so) in many ways, inexperienced in relationships, having been with only two men, ever, and this for only a short time (out of which resulted two kids). She is coming over tonight -
Luke
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