Hell I mean, I don't really plan on getting with another girl, that was more anger and I wanted to get back at her. however, is there not some merit in the thought, if WW thought I might be talking to another girl, she'd see I'm not a rug to walk on, and maybe there's a chance she'll really lose me? if sandi's psyh stuff is right, that could be an after effect.

anyway, I say that because W has access to the phone bill (always has) and she must have seen all the messages I had sent to my buddy, because she asked my buddy's wife if his number was xxx-xxx-xxxx so she's checking who I'm chatting with.

I did go out, was going to meet with my buddy, but he bailed, so I watched some baseball and chatted with strangers for a bit then headed home.

I don't really feel like talking to the W right now either, so I'm gonna keep a low profile, and let her do any initiating.

j20a, I hate to hear about ur sitch, that [censored] breaks my heart, I hope it gets resolved in the best possible way.

thanks all.

M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16