So received an email from the W this morning stating that she suggests we change our custody split with our S. Currently we split 50/50 and it works (starting from Monday) 2x3x2 then it reverses...

Now I think that this is working quite well for our S but the W has suggested that he's being clingy. I've said all along that this will affect him as us being together is all he's ever know. She believes that it wont affect him!!

The W has also expressed her difficulty in getting to work on time on the morning that she has him and I wonder if this is a reason behind her request to change arrangements.

I've stood firm and stated that I think that things are working and that his clinginess is him adjusting.

My S's feelings are paramount above both mine and my W's but I appreciate that flexibility is the key to having something sustainable for the future.

Wouldn't mind others thoughts on this....


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016