Hi RBG, that all sounds really helpful to me - and a good investment of your time. Here's the thing - in the longer term, if you are able to healthily process your own feelings and better manage your fear of abandonment - you will lead a happier and more peaceful life.
When people say - become the best you - they don't (just) mean wear some nice shoes and cologne....they mean this kind of stuff. ie: deal with those things that do hold you back and impact on your relationships. Kudos to you for engaging in that.
I have to say, having pretty much reached the other side (I hope) - the number one thing I would look for in a guy would be emotional maturity.
Good luck on your journey
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
